Girls,
I need some advice for all girls who have or are going through a divorce and have a child or children involved in the process.
Here is some back ground on what is going on. My wife found out about 3 years after our marriage that I was into crossdressing. She found all my things and was confused and hurt. She said that she was okay with it, but never really supported me or tried to understand it from my perspective. It continued to be an issue and when she finally told me she wanted a divorce, the issue of me crossdressing was one of the main reasons stated. We have a child that is now caught up in the divorce process.
We could not agree on a reasonable custody arrangement so it went to mediation. She told her lawyer about my crossdressing it became an obvious issue to the mediator. They used who I am against me in my child custody arrangement agreement. We came up with something that worked but not my ideal resolution. We have been moving forward with the divorce, splitting up assets, splitting up properties, etc. I thought we were about to finally sign the papers and she told me tonight that she wants verbage put into the paperwork that states that I will not crossdress in our childs presence. I about blew a gasket. My child has never seen that side of me and I do not feel comfortable enough to even approach that. But she wants it in writing. I am hurt, upset, and most of all pissed off that she would again make my crossdressing an issue.
Have any of you girls had to deal with a situation like this, if so how did you handle it?
Thanks in advance girls I just do not know where else to turn right now for advice.
Trisha