Allow me to explain what I mean by "textbook case": I grew up a first born son, with an antagonistic and absent father, a mother who is a tad on the protective side, and a younger sister whom (at the time) I felt received more praise and attention than I did, despite being spoiled and getting in trouble often. (I never got in trouble, but never felt much kudos for it)
Readers of certain literatures I've read out there might go "no wonder why you crossddess!" but I somehow doubt that any of that is the reason. It feels like such an intrinsic part of my tempement that I think it precedes my upbringing.
What are your thoughts on this? Do you believe what you've read? Do these supposed reasons apply to you?