Don't be scarred. Once you do it you will laugh at why you thought anything of it. I do it all the time. I love wearing panties, pantyhose or thigh high stockings under my work slacks. I get a kick when I'm talking to females at work, seeing them in their feminine clothes and little do they know that I've got a few items on myself. In the winter when it colder and I'm wearing sweaters I like to wear a camisole. So long as it is not padded or has an underwire it's difficult to tell. And, on rare occassions I will push the envelope by wearing womens slacks. Just go for it. One step at a time.