Just remember were here for Lisa she is the one hurting right now she is the one who is the member here... we have read this stuff time and time again.
the truth is Lisa love her S.O so much that she stayed with her for 30+ years keeping her cding deep deep in the closet for the sake of the love Lisa had for her S.O only to be found out yet Again before Christmas a time were are supposed to put away our hate and show how much we love and care.
Lisa i am truly sorry