I believe there a probably many, many women out there who would want to be the dominant partner. (Of course, many others are just like us and want to be submissive.)
Being dominant suits my wife, not being submissive. She heads a department at work and is used to being assertive and in charge of things and directing things the way she wants them to be. That is house things are in our household as well.
Sure my wife and I talk things over, but she ends up having it her way. I don't cause any trouble by disputing her. And I am happy to be this way.