This is most understandable and to my mind speaks of why we as CDers are at times our own worst enemies. I too find such things to be objectionable.
This us why despair of people like RuPaul and the more outrageous people in the drag queen scene. I feel they not only make a mockery of women , but also of us as CDers who are, shall we say, garden variety. This is not the public face we need, yet we as a group more often than not embrace them gladly. Shame on us.
Huggles
Toni-Lynn