Since joining this group I have run into several feelings/phrases/thoughts that I always thought were my own (and no one else's),.. only to see them referred to on this site like they're common knowledge (ha !).
For example: referring to "drab" mode. I basically had lost interest in clothes a long time ago because of my "designation".
I was just reading the thread: "What Would be Your Ideal Situation ?". There was a post by Sara Jessica that contained a phrase:
"These things would enhance my own personal comfort level, hopefully to reduce the tg noise which is ever present in my mind".
When the avalanche of tg emotions came down on me all at once a couple of years ago (stored up over a lifetime - I refer to it as trying to pour Niagra Falls into a dixie cup
... it was a crazy time, I was quite unprepared for the deluge that was about to take place). I had the opportunity at that time (with my wife's help) of actually getting to acknowledge *jina* for the first time.
I'll never forget the first evening, standing in front of the mirror after getting to "go the distance" with makeup etc. saying to myself (and later to my wife)... "the noise is gone, I can't believe it... it's just gone". It was the most amazing thing. All those years of wanting, wishing, being brave.. suddenly *resolved*. I stayed up late that night just thinking about it, putting off the inevitable "back to drab" as long as I could.
I'm still evolving,.. and really enjoying *me* when the opportunities arise. Still coming to terms with everything and what it all means.
Anyway,... anyone else out there actually had "the noise" description in their thoughts and words, or been aware of it's existence ?