I've actually set all the restrictions on myself. She's pretty supportive of me and I don't want to freak her out too much. First time I told her, she was kind of wierded out. I've been breaking her in to this kind of slowly. I do wear a lot of fem clothes around the house now and she doesn't mind any more. She's not a big shopper so we don't go shopping for clothes together or anything like that. I've only shown her a couple pictures of me completely decked out. She hasn't seen me that way IRL yet and I don't mind really.