[SIZE="3"]May seem like an odd question, but definitely on my mind this evening.
You know we read and for many think so much about passing, about blending in, being stealth like almost undetectable, but today I’m wondering if that’s always best.
There is always the little quirks that make each of us an individual, but I wonder just how far one can go to blend in before you’re not even noticed at all. Apparently I had a neighbor like that.
His name was Mike. Quiet, kept to himself, polite, I’m guessing shy, just did his own thing and would whisk past you seemingly wanting to be invisible. I never really thought much about it until today.
I came home from work to find the entrance to my building surrounded by crime scene tape. Police standing about and suddenly I’m asked about when was the last time I saw Mike. I had to think? Now I had noticed his truck had been in the same spot for a few weeks, but being in the building trades I figured he was off a project for the holidays. I did think yesterday it was odd, I hadn’t seen it move this week, but given the state of the economy many employers are doing extended shutdowns. But then today, when the Sergeant asked when did you see Mike last. When was it?
There was snow on the ground I recalled, last week? No it had warmed up. It was the day I called to complain that the building maintenance had not even attempted to clear the snow or ice and another ice storm was headed our way. Oh wow. Was it that long? That was Christmas Eve.
I had been working my early shifts and was leaving to go to work at 3am, he was just returning home carrying some items. We nodded he went in the door I went out. That was typically the extent of our relationship.
Was, is the key word, because Mike died. It seems I was possibly the last person to see him alive those almost two weeks ago.
He had gone to see some family and was returning from that trip when I nodded and walked on by that morning. The coroner believes he was dead since Christmas in his apartment above me and no one knew until today. No foul play. Natural causes and just two years older than me.
He was on scheduled vacation that week and the next, and apparently his boss called the complex manager Monday when he didn’t show up, because 23 years on the job and he had never not shown up. They dismissed it as maybe he was traveling and he’d obviously show up the next day. He didn’t. And then not again today and now the complex noticed he hadn’t paid his rent. He’d lived there 10 years and never been late.
Not answering his phone or his door, the next call was the Police, just in case. The officers came and entered with the manager and there was Mike, where he had obviously been for a while.
It really has me thinking, how invisible someone really can be even or perhaps even more so in a major metropolitan area. Mike passed to such a degree that we hardly knew him or even noticed his ‘ultimate passing’.
Just has me contemplating tonight.
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