View Poll Results: To me, crossdressing means ...

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  • I like to wear women's (feminine) clothing.

    86 38.22%
  • I want to dress like a woman, part-time.

    28 12.44%
  • I want to dress and pass as a woman, part-time.

    68 30.22%
  • I want to dress as a woman full-time.

    13 5.78%
  • I want to live as a woman full-time.

    9 4.00%
  • I want to be a woman.

    8 3.56%
  • Something else to me.

    13 5.78%
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Thread: What is your definition of crossdressing?

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    Just trying be who I am. Byllie's Avatar
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    What is your definition of crossdressing?

    Simple as that. I've listed what I see as the various definitions used by forum members. If I haven't listed your definition, my apologies, and please post a reply to this thread.
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    Each one of us is unique. Each brings a different motivation and desired outcome to our activity.
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    Not wearing male clothing...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katie B View Post
    OK, call me pedantic, but "what I like doing" isn't the same as how I define crossdressing.

    I define crossdressing as wearing the clothes of the opposite sex, for whatever reason. Whether I personally prefer to do that once a month or 24 hours a day has nothing to do with the definition. So in fact I lied in the poll and gave answer no.1. Slap my wrist.
    Katie, you didn't lie. You simply gave that definition that reflects how you live.
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    Now .. a problem.

    Today I want to BE a woman.
    Yesterday I wanted to dress as a woman and be accepted as a woman.
    Tomorrow . . . well .. back to living asa woman (as I have done for some months now).

    So, I havent ticked a box!
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    All of the above

    You left out of your choices - "all of the above" - that's what I want to be !
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    Crossdressing is surely what one does (whether M2F or F2M) - not why?

    I call myself trans, or transgender, because it seems to have more meaning as to who I am?
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    All the first three apply to me, but I can't tick all 3. I've ticked the first, because that's all I've actually done, but I sure want the next two, and no more.

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    I guess you could have better called it:
    "What I want [or get] out of crossdressing"

    1] I like to wear women's (feminine) clothing.
    2] I want to dress like a woman, part-time.
    3] I want to dress and pass as a woman, part-time.
    4] I want to dress as a woman full-time.
    5] I want to live as a woman full-time.
    6] I want to be a woman.
    7] Something else to me.

    Well I guess if you didn't at least do #1 you would not be here, lol
    You can say that #1 & 2 are about the same, if you think about it.
    I think most here would like to have #3 at some point.
    Again, #4 & 5 are pretty much the same, aren't they?
    Although some can say #5 & 6 are close too, but with different endings.
    And well #7 covers everything else.

    All good, but I think an expanded meaning of them would work better.
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    I voted "SOMETHING ELSE TO ME". Mostly because I have at one point or another wanted each or all of the above. To me crossdressing does not need to be defined, it is just what I do, If you call wearing MY OWN CLOTHING crossdressing. Just because most of them were supposedly designed for the female gender does not mean I can not wear them if I so desire, AND I DO.
    No these are not womens clothes!! THEY ARE MINE, EVEN THE HEELS. (update 4/01/10) THEY ARE NOW ! ! !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicki B View Post
    Crossdressing is surely what one does (whether M2F or F2M) - not why?

    I call myself trans, or transgender, because it seems to have more meaning as to who I am?
    The term crossdressing only intails the wearing of the opposite genders clothing! I feel, for me it is much more. I would go with transgender!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicki B View Post
    ...I call myself trans, or transgender...
    I call myself Nigella
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    I voted for wearing the clothes. I still do the stuff around the house that guys are supposed to do, it would just be more fun in a skirt and heels. BTW, my first post or reply as a member.

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    I ticked the "Other" box

    *hugs*

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    Ah to be feminine, girly. Nothing better than that. Well, ok, but that would be for different type of site.

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    Smile I tend to agree with Kelsy

    I'd like to wear women's clothes all the time if I could, but not sure of my courage level yet. The opportunity may be opening up for me to do just that, but not sure in my mind if I should go for the opportunity or consider counseling to clarify what I really want. In my mind, I feel that I am more feminine than male, I don't feel as if I'm trapped in a man's body, but still would like to be out full-time if I could. I don't know if I make sense but I think some of you here know what I mean. Kimberly
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    I had to go with number one. I underdress with panties, hose, bra, and cami's and wear fem jeans every day. I only go all out with wig and makeup seldom but love it when I do. For me it is the clothes and the way that they fit and feel.
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    Not wearing one ounce of male clothing.

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    My goal is to be a woman, so that is rhe box I ticked. So far, however, I have only started going out so my immediate goal is to get better at passing and increase my wardrobe.
    living the dream

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    I think its what ever makes you feel good.
    Crossdressing can be fron just simply a coat of polish or full dressing.Every one has there own Ideas about the subject but enjoy all the posibilities.

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    I guess CDing is a little complicated to define. There are times when I would love to be a complete woman from top to bottom. Other times, I feel satisfied wearing lingerie under my male clothing. And other times I'm comfy with jeans and t-shirt (specially when I have to work around the house doing man stuff). I guess it depends on the mood. I believe it's a very volatile condition, at least for me. Perhaps that's why it's very complicated to explain to other people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlUeDrAgOn View Post
    I guess CDing is a little complicated to define.
    I disagree? Surely, it just means wearing the clothes of the opposite sex (or, in the case of political crossdressing, the opinions of the opposing party)?


    The contentious bit is why - that's where it gets complicated.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicki B View Post
    Crossdressing is surely what one does (whether M2F or F2M) - not why?
    Exactly, as I put it sometimes , "crossdressing is a symptom, not the thing itself", like how a stuffy nose or a cough is a symptom of a cold.

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    You heard me sneezing over there?

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