I realize this may have been a topic of conversation before, so...please forgive my noobieness, but this is an intriguing subject for me, because my wife, who knows but does not partipate in my crossdressing is not averse to sometimes wearing my things.
We're only 1" different in height, she a size 12 skirt with me either a 12 or 14 depending on cut, so...we're not that dissimilar.. Anyway, last night, were getting ready to go a nice, pretty formal event. I chose my very dark green Italian wool suit, my spouse a lovely medium-grey cowlneck dress which she knows I love....
Getting into her light grey pantyhose, she puts a run on them and starts mildly cursing because the were the only grey hose she had. In five seconds she looks at me and says 'do you have any grey pantihose?' I double take and stare at her, and sheepishly say 'yes, I think so', to which she responds 'can I borrow them?'
I go to 'my other drawer' as she calls it, rummage through my hosiery, find it and gher the package. She starts putting them on and says 'drats, honey, I cant wear these, they arent control tops'. To which I reply 'You know that I like girdles and because of that, I never get control top hose. Do you want me to lend you one of my softer, lighter girdles?' three second silence, then 'okay'.
I amble over to the other room again, search thru my stash of girdles and pull out a nice Va Bien high-waist in black and give it to her. She slips it on, admires herself in the mirror and says 'ohh, honey, this is nice....I have to get me one of these'. My reply was 'Hon, if you like it, keep it because it's too light control for me'.
We had a lovely dinner and evening, and....returning home was even better...
Does your spouse borrow your clothing or accesories, even if she does not actively share in your CD'ing?