I can understand where you are coming from Curse. Some of the guilt you feel may be associated with the troubles that crossdressing has brought you. A while back I used to feel guilty about my crossdressing habits. But now I accept it and embrace it. I once purged my clothing approximately 13 years ago, and I am still kicking myself over it. Back then I did not have a complete understanding of crossdressing. Since then I have been able to find out alot about crossdressing by reading books, participating in this forum and checking out other crossdressing related websites. IMHO you are being way too hard on yourself. Try not to beat yourself up over the fact that you like to wear womens clothing. Be positive about it. If you enjoy it then do so. And dont compare yourself with other people. Telling yourself that what you are doing is wrong is doing no good whatsoever.