What exactly is the difficulty in accepting someone you love's choices for clothing?
I've heard the women are afraid of losing their man to CDing.
I can imagine all kinds of imagined social consequences/punishment.
Isn't it finally clothing? And does that really change who we are, fundamentally, as people? And why is change a threat? Couldn't it be an adventure, something that makes life interesting?
Is it that our spouses are reflecting our own issues with ourselves?
My spouse is along for the ride. But then, for us, marriage wasn't a set of expectations... it was a journey towards love. I don't recall clothing choices coming up in the vows.