Have you ever sat back and watched a number of TG girls walking around in heels, 1 inch or higher? Have you've seen the wobble effect?
It takes some effort for those of us who have little to no practice time in heels to walk naturally in heels above 1 inch. It is not natural for us to move our hips as women do naturally.
Have you ever just sat at the mall and watched the women walk by, the ones in jeans? Ever noticed the hip swing or butt wiggle? The guy part of us does see this, now think about how you walk and do you wiggle like that? Maybe you do now, but did you when you first started out?
When we wear a skirt or a dress we have the material hanging around our legs giving us some idea of what our butts are doing. If we feel it swishing because our butts are wiggling just right then we know we have the walk down. When we can move our hips naturally as a girl then we can wear the jeans with the confidence that we are moving as we should.
Yes, I've seen TGs wear jeans and they look like men walking around in heels and a wig on. I've seen some girls walk similar and they still have that hip movement.
Yes we can wear whatever we want, my point is to try and be as feminine as I can. I had a comment the other day on how much more feminine I am since I first stepped out. Most of the comment was on how I presented myself and that person knew I had made serious changes on my appearance about a year ago.
If you need help to identify your hip movements try bellydancing, you will learn about your hips.
HUGS Sandra