So today I thought I had a few hours to spend as Kendra. My Kids were at there mother's and then going to a movie that I am picking them up from. So I get my makeup done and put on a new dress and head downstairs to take some pics and just relax. As I'm in my kitchen I see a car pull up and its my kids, their cousin and aunt. I freaked out and ran upstairs to my room covered everything up with my blanket and hopped in the bathrom to take a shower. So my kids come in the house and knock on the door to say Hi and tell me they were picking stuff up. They left pretty quick but I'm worried that 1 of them must have seen me in the kitchen as they pulled in. I'm getting really tired of hiding all the time but don't know how to explain this to my daughters. They live with me 5 nights a week so I don't get a lot of me time. I'm just at a loss and feel stuck. I want to be me but don't want to hurt or confuse my kids. How have any of you dealt with this?