Crossing dressing and dating guys?

[neha]

Since childhood i did wish to be a girl. I like to be girly always and be among girls always.Since then i dress up as a girl and tend to behave as a girl. I started to figure my body as a girl. I wish i was born as i girl. I only feel comfortable and cozy when i am dressed up as a hot girl. I like the tension of my Bra and Panties. I like to be in my black erotic lingeire and fishnet stockings with suspenders always. I love to have pink lipglows,eyeshadows and nail polish in my long nails. I love to use rose blushers always.I love to have long glossy black hair that touches my butt. I love to in black killer heels and white mini skirts. I love the stockings being tight to my skin. It makes me feel very proud that I am a girl now. I like the crowd admiring my sexy body. I like to walk in the streets as a hot sexy girl and like guys admiring my beauty. One day I would love to be a hot sexy dancer at a night club. I would love to get married to a guy who will love me as his dear wife and treat me soft. I would love to be a happy married wife for life. I wish to be a house wife serving my husband all time. Every night when my husband comes back home, I like to lie on his chest and relax. I love to be taken for a date and treated romantic.

I am dreaming of a day when turn myself into a complete girl and guys take me for date and treat me so girly.

[lari]

I love dating guys and never ever miss a chance

[Suzi Q]

I never think about dating guys.
I would like to go places En Femme with my wife or another GG.
I had a special occasion make up session at Sephora at the suggestion of a female friend and met her there En Femme. After she waited with me while I was being made up we walked the mall just for fun.

Suzi Q

[Barbara Dugan]

I dont want date guys anymore..what I really want is to marry one

[KarenCDFL]

"If a cucumber to take out the garbage....."

[Newbridget]

That's the main reason I CD and I really enjoy my very naughty femme side and so does my partner(s).

[seanmuscle]

That would be me. I've never had anyone refer to me as 'that hot girl' though. I like it! lol



But seriously, I've also noticed that attitudes about dating men increase over time and I've often wondered if this is because the fantasy builds up to a fevered pitch? Does sexual orientation really change (providing a TG is not on hormones), or would the reality of having sex with a guy severely disappoint if it were experienced in RL?

Or .. the big question: For those who are discovering an increasing desire for men, are they slowly getting out of denial over always having been homosexual? Have their sexual experiences with GGs been fulfilling all along or were these TGs just going through the motions because they felt they had to? I'm not saying this is the case but the questions do come to mind.

Look as a woman I know it must disappoint you knowing that most CDs eventually want to be with us men. You might have feelings of jealousy and insecurity knowing your husband is attracted to masculine, strong and handsome men while en femme. That is why I would advice you to date a traditional man.

Being with a man is the CDs ultimate fantasy. Men have been conditioned to be very masculine and embracing their feminine side takes time. That is why they first start out trying moms panties in secret, work their way to her hose, then her heels, eventually developing the courage to go in public and buy their own lingerie etc... As they gain more comfort with their feminine identity they will explore deeper into the feminine world. Being with a man is the ultimate act of femininity. To be acknowledged and loved as a woman completes her feminine transformation.

They dream of a handsome prince fawning over her while she is dressed in a beautiful wedding gown and get a tingly feeling as he dives under to remove her garter belt. They love to be held in our muscular arms, to feel safe and protected by her knight in shining armor. To look up into his eyes and be ravaged by his passionate kisses. They feel so feminine knowing they are driving the young buck wild. They most of all love being intimate with a man. This makes her a real woman.

[Megan70]

I dont want date guys anymore..what I really want is to marry one

And you Barbara would make a lovely Bride, all dressed in white.

[StephaniAnn]

This makes her a real woman.

There are lots of *real women* (lesbians) who don't necessarily fit the criteria you listed.
Ever try putting on a pair of heels and a skirt? Takes a real man to do that.
Guessing you probably aren't up for that, though.

[Carol123]

been with 2 men and loved it

[michellesworld]

That would be me. I've never had anyone refer to me as 'that hot girl' though. I like it! lol



But seriously, I've also noticed that attitudes about dating men increase over time and I've often wondered if this is because the fantasy builds up to a fevered pitch? Does sexual orientation really change (providing a TG is not on hormones), or would the reality of having sex with a guy severely disappoint if it were experienced in RL?

Or .. the big question: For those who are discovering an increasing desire for men, are they slowly getting out of denial over always having been homosexual? Have their sexual experiences with GGs been fulfilling all along or were these TGs just going through the motions because they felt they had to? I'm not saying this is the case but the questions do come to mind.

Thanks for tallying all that up.

I found another informal survey with a much larger sample size done in 1999

http://www.yvonnesplace.net/survey/s.../sexuality.htm

Of course, both of these studies have severe limitations, for taking a survey from crossdressers who are active on online communities present bias. While there are limitations, th

According to the above link, looks like only 11.3% have dated men while en femme. So essentially, while a lot of CD's may fantasize about dating a man, a small, but somewhat significant number, actually do go through with it.

Of course, we all must realize that these surveys are far from scientific, for these samples are far from random. Still, these studies are illuminating, especially due to the fact that there seems to be so few studies.

[neha]

being a girl i can be more trendy and hot. i love to be a girl and be treated so by a guy. that makes me feel a complete women.

[Cassandra]

I'm with a man now, he's 25 years older than me and I love it.

[Mistybtm]

I'm with a man now, he's 25 years older than me and I love it.

I love being with older men as well.

[MiraM]

And you Barbara would make a lovely Bride, all dressed in white.

Agree 100%

[titus]

NEVER crossed their minds? NEVER? really? If they say so:brolleyes:

[JulieK1980]

Look as a woman I know it must disappoint you knowing that most CDs eventually want to be with us men. You might have feelings of jealousy and insecurity knowing your husband is attracted to masculine, strong and handsome men while en femme. That is why I would advice you to date a traditional man.

Being with a man is the CDs ultimate fantasy. Men have been conditioned to be very masculine and embracing their feminine side takes time. That is why they first start out trying moms panties in secret, work their way to her hose, then her heels, eventually developing the courage to go in public and buy their own lingerie etc... As they gain more comfort with their feminine identity they will explore deeper into the feminine world. Being with a man is the ultimate act of femininity. To be acknowledged and loved as a woman completes her feminine transformation.

They dream of a handsome prince fawning over her while she is dressed in a beautiful wedding gown and get a tingly feeling as he dives under to remove her garter belt. They love to be held in our muscular arms, to feel safe and protected by her knight in shining armor. To look up into his eyes and be ravaged by his passionate kisses. They feel so feminine knowing they are driving the young buck wild. They most of all love being intimate with a man. This makes her a real woman.

That's a rather broad statement. As with most generalizations it falls flat though. While some Crossdressers do, any statement that says all, is almost always false. Life just isn't that black and white. Even perusing this thread shows the large gray area, and a number of crossdressers that simply don't fit into that pigeon hole.

[Sophie_C]

But, Sean never said "all", did he?

[JulieK1980]

But, Sean never said "all", did he?

His second paragraph, it would be inferred. Just saying "most" in the first paragraph is overshadowed by the inferences below it. In other words the word "most" in the paragraph is a technicality over the broader statements below.

But even with the statement "most" it's still a very broad brush stroke, that I still don't necessarily see any evidence to support.

[christiek]

I am mtf 25 living full time and I have to say after dating a couple of men I don't sleep as well at night when I am single (like I am now). There is just something about being with a man that makes me feel safe and secure. Like nothing will ever happen to me as long as he is here. If something does happen when he isn't there I know all I have to do is make a phone call and he will come take care of it. <3 men!

[deebra]

Oh yes, I was getting a haircut and my barber (who was getting into the gay life) was hinting around about me coming over. So I told him it was a real turn-on for me to CD and he said no problem. As I was dressing that evening to go over his house the excitement was like going on a first date. After shaving 100% I slipped into a pair of black nylon panties with white lace trim, a matching black bra and my D breast forms, black straight skirt, black sweater and 4" pumps. Make-up, wig and perfume completed the transformation. It felt sooo feminine walking in heels, skirt and the weight and jiggle of my breasts. After a little chit-chat we went into his bedroom and when I took off my skirt and sweater I could see what he saw really turned him on. While performing as a woman with bra and panties still on I felt 100% female. It was the best of the best. It took cding to a whole new high. After a couple of hours I got dressed, freshened my makeup and drove home. Trust me, the enjoyment and fullfillment of the whole evening just blew the top off the thermomenter.

[seanmuscle]

His second paragraph, it would be inferred. Just saying "most" in the first paragraph is overshadowed by the inferences below it. In other words the word "most" in the paragraph is a technicality over the broader statements below.

But even with the statement "most" it's still a very broad brush stroke, that I still don't necessarily see any evidence to support.

I will not apologize for saying most. It is quite evident here that many CDs have fantasies about men and/or have slept with men. Like I said because there is social stigma with being a CD there are often feelings of guilt and shame so it is a process that occurs over time as CDs become more comfortable and accepting of their feminine side. Being with a man is the one the most girly feelings a CD can experience. You can see how many CDs actually think like genetic women. They love to feel safe and protected in a strong mans arms and to be the woman making love to a man.

For all those CDs out there, stockings, heels and garter belts drive men nuts. Especially toped off with lace panties and a frilly feminine blouse.

[Haley]

But I don't think I could ever do anything with a guy. I love women too much, lol

[dee anne]

I started dressing first, then fantisizing about going out dressed then went out dressed then started thinking about meeting other cd's for dressing sessions then those thoughts went to more than just dressing. then started thinking about going out wth a man with me dressed. It always has to be dressed though, I do not think of dating men as a man. So i have had 1 experience with a CD, still trying to figure that one out. It was one night and that is not what I had imangined.
What i find the most appealling is spending time with other cross dressers who are curious and feel our way into what feels good.

So to answer the question for me I am interseted in other cd's, how ever aftergoing through this long thread i do not think that any body can be wrong.

Dee anne

[JeanDoe]

Well, the title says it all...

Joke aside, I think I am also a lesbian in that regard. I don't quite feel like dating men...