For a long time I felt cooped up about this secret of mine underdressing/en femme. During buying a skirt because of the size I said it is for me, no problem whatsoever. Various things happened after that my post lady knows the ladies up in my local shop and several other people I know round about me. All seem to realise that my life is normal to me and I am reassured that I can at least go out albeit to the safe places I know without worrying at all. At first I thought that people would be critical and judgemental about the whole thing but as it has turned out everything is working out just nicely and I do not expect any backlash at all. It's all very comforting
