Self identity issues.

[newandshy]

I'm having an issue with my "self-identity". Not in the sense that I don't know what I am, I have a hard time putting it into words. I do like to wear women's clothes, but not really your typical things. I mostly like wearing cute t-shirts and pajamas things like that, usually graphic tees. I explained this to my wife years ago before we were married and at first she was totally ok with it, hell, she bought some stuff for me. As the years have gone by she has grown tired of it, then I found a website that better explained it. It was as close to what I feel as anything I have found, it said that people that are like this are just so attracted to you that they want to wear your clothes. Now, I am paraphrasing but it was along those lines, I love wearing her stuff, and I love it when she takes an interest in it.

Now that is only one half of it, the other half is I like wearing cute things. Not always in traditional women's sizes, I have a Elsa shirt that I got at Kohl's that is a men's shirt but its cute and it's my favorite, on the other side I have a bunch of hello kitty shirts that I love as well but those are in women's styles, such as low cut necks etc. I like the idea of buying and wearing this stuff in public, especially stuff like the Elsa shirt, it is a men's shirt, but I can't get myself to wear it out. If I do wear it out my wife will insist I cover it up with a sweatshirt or something which is fine, but I want it out there, but at the same time I don't want to be made fun of.

I don't even know what I'm really asking for, I feel so scatterbrained at the moment. I guess I'm looking for others that feel kinda the same way, not full-blown cd's per say, but guys that like wearing girly shirts to the point that it's almost like a need or a rush if you do. I don't really care for dresses, panties, etc. things like that but I would wear them just my main thing is cute shirts.

Anyone know a group like me? Something similar? thanks!

[Teresa]

Newandshy,
I get the feeling you are trying to stay in a comfort zone for you wife's sake and possibly yours at the moment . There's no harm in that but any form of CDing has the problem of wanting more ! At some point you start to think I wonder what I'll look like in that or I'd like to try what that GG was wearing , getting that buzz certainly at your age is nearly impossible to avoid.
Most come to the point where you really want the total look, I'm afraid once the makeup goes on and and a nice fitting wig it can be quite mesmorising !
I'm not trying to convince you or persuade you but It's usually how it goes, even at my age I love it more than ever !

[newandshy]

Oh I am not affraid of wanting more at all, I think it would be fun, but I guess I just don't have the courage to do anything about it. I think that has more to do with not knowing anyone else that I see is like me.

[kittie60]

Newandshy, alot of cders start they way but as Teresa stated most want more. There issue nothing wrong with that it's something only you can work out. Best of luck to you

[Glenda58]

WE all started slow then wanting more. Once you start doing more it will be hard to go back and I haven't heard of anyone going back.

[flatlander_48]

on the other side I have a bunch of hello kitty shirts

Gawd, I spent 6 years in Taiwan and I thought I left Hello Kitty behind when I came home!?!? There is even a factory color scheme that you could get on the Nissan March (which we never got in the US) for Hello Kitty. The photo shows how it looks. I believe there was also a Hello Kitty decal on the front fenders in addition to the pink bits and pieces.

[Beverley Sims]

I have a "Tinkle Bell" T shirt similar to yours that I bought in Dizzyland in Florida.

I wore it around the next day and when asked about it I just said it is a picture of my girlfriend and not to tell my wife, who was with me.

[newandshy]

Great stuff, is there anyone out there that can say their style is just like mine or pretty close?