Is being a SISSY or SUB a bad thing when you are so wanting and willing to do that?
Is being a SISSY or SUB a bad thing when you are so wanting and willing to do that?
STOP, Well I just dance the way I feel
Stop breathing imagine none of this is real
Well I just dance the way I feel
Well I just dance the way I feel
Well I just dance the way I feel
Why would it be a bad thing. If you enjoy it and your not hurting anyone then nobody should care but you.
My submissive side definitely comes out more when I'm dressed.
I feel this the same way. When in female mode I become submissive and desire to play a female role. However, it seems to be like the old paradox: what was the first chicken or egg?
If it makes you happy / It can't be that bad
If it makes you happy / Then why the hell are you so sad?
If it's what you want and you share it with willing partners why would it be bad?
Everyone has things they like or like to do. I'm sure many of us enjoy things that someone would consider bad, but if it hurts no one then what the heck.
I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !
That’s your personal choice.
Amy
Yes! It is! U r a very bad girl, Stacy, and must be punished!
Now, bend over and take your spanking like a lady!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
I think this falls into the category of consenting adults. What like-minded people do together is their own business.
O wad some Pow'r the giftie gie us
To see oursels as ithers see us!
A fully consenting adult can do what they want with their own person/lifestyle. The question that always concerns me is how much consent someone with a submissive personality has freely given to a dominant partner and how capable they are of rescinding consent if they desire to do so. People stay with abusers all the time fully knowing the are being abused.
Hi Stacy I hope it's not a bad thing otherwise my wifes idea of a perfect marriage is sending me straight to hell.
Amy x
Being a sissy is a wonderful thing. It is bad if you are a sissy and you suppress her.
You will become stronger in the ways of the Pink Fog. May the Pink Fog guide you and be with you now and forever.
Not bad at all, so long as you don't apply those labels to others indiscriminately. For example, I never consider myself sissy even when I dress, as I'm still a man ready to do man things while wearing cute clothes. As to being sub (or dom) I can enjoy either but those involve bedroom activities.
Oh, and what Doc said!
Life is short
I?m not particularly fond of the term or larger subculture of ?sissies?, but to each their own.
It really is to each their own with this and many other things within our community
Crissy
Stacy, If that is what floats your boat, go for it.
Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".
as long as you don't associate 'sissy' with femininity
The general agreement seems to be that if you enjoy it, and as a consenting adult, there's no problem. I would pay attention to my conscience, though. Feelings of regret/remorse afterward would at least be a signal for a serious self-examination and deciding where you want these feelings to go. It may be just good fun, or it could be something to avoid in the future.
As someone who is sexually active with a great boyfriend I don't consider it a bad thing at all.
Ditto. Nothing against submissiveness, but in the context of dressing as a female, associating the two reveals problematic conceptions about the role of women in society. I'm not judging, just acknowledging that fact (my dressing too is largely based on gender stereotypes I grew up with).Originally Posted by audreyinalbany
Not bad at all. I started as trying the sissy or sub type rolls. As I have grown and learned along my journey with experiences my desired role while dressing has changed. Try. Like it? Do it. Don't? Try something else. Today I am of a dominate roll while dressing. It's truer to my authentic self because to me it feels right, natural, comfortable. Back in the day I would do or try anything to dress. I had lot's of fun and found my way through it all.
Hi Stacy, not so sure about being a sub as I don't think I'd like to be submissive, but Sissies appear to "undress" in the most beautiful, colourful, delicate and frilly underwear.
How can that be bad, it looks like so much fun!
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If it's a bad thing, then my desires, although unfulfilled, will get me in trouble. If my wife were to ever get on board with my cross dressing to the point of being supportive, then I'd ask her to let me be her sissy and sub. But, that is pure fantasy in my life. Heck, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be either a submissive or a sissy. If you and your partner enjoy those roles, go for it.
It's never too late to enjoy a happy childhood.
Live each day as though it's your last 'cause one day you'll be right.
I'm finding the more feminine side of me...and I ❤️ this adventure.
For the most part, if you're not harming anyone, there's nothing wrong with doing something you like.
Ngl?this site has done a 180 in acceptance or a least tolerance of the term ?sissy?
Stacy,
I have fought long and hard about my submissive sissy feelings. A few years ago I decided to simply accept that's what I love about my feminine side. Not all feminine people are submissive, both GGs and anyone on the feminine spectrum. That's OK. To quote a very old and over used term:
I'm ok, you're ok.
We do what we need to do to satisfy our urges and desires. Of course, only when it does not harm or involve those who don't want to be involved. I have found there are MANY who are like minded. Just like you and I.
JenniCD456
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