I keep seeing these posts on here regarding whether or not a CDer is gay, what to respond when someone asks, how to handle it, so on and so forth!
First, you are only gay if you are sexually, emotionally, etc, attracted to the same sex all the time. Not when they dress a certain way. All. The. Time!
Second, everyone likes to feel beautiful/handsome. Being flirted with by someone of the same sex while you are dressed makes you feel beautiful/handsome. This does not mean you are gay or bi! It means you enjoy looking good and receiving a compliment!
Thirdly, there is nothing wrong with being gay or bi. There is something wrong with being constantly paranoid about it!
Those of us who are gay or bisexual do not question if we are straight. We know we aren't. So please, relax. If you aren't as defined above, you aren't gay.
That said...
If you really want to keep people guessing or to actually have a bit of fun with the endless "are you gay?" question from people, here's an idea:
When asked if you are gay (and you aren't), simply look at them and say...
Yes, I'm a lesbian/gay man (for our handsome FTM).
That should shut them up long enough for you to have a chuckle at their expense.
And honestly... with all the things CDers have to worry about, do you really need to add this unnecessary question to the list? You know that despite your answer, most people have already made up their minds when they ask you this question.
