I,ve found the same thing. I used to dress rarely when i was married, but since living in my own place and dressing regularly, i seem to want go further all the time.
In less than a year i,ve gone from just dressing in underwear occasionally to now going out fully "en femme" in the evenings. I plan to go out to a club in the next few weeks where c/ders are welcome. I,ve little doubt i,ll go further as time goes on!!
I think some of us just keep evolving Vikki!!