A comment by Ashley in Jersey (sorry, Virginia) and talking to a CDer friend I met last week made me think of this...
I always hated how "short" I was - at 5'6", I'm not exactly a tall guy. I absolutely hated it. Once I accepted my feminine side, all of the sudden, a liability became an asset. Now, I couldn't be happier with my height.
The same applies to my relatively small frame. I hated how small I was and I spent years working out to bulk up. Thankfully, I stopped my body building before I got too bulked up.
Now, both my height (or lack thereof) and my relatively small frame help me in my CDing. I almost wish I didn't spend so much time in the gym now...I'd like (slightly) less muscle mass.
