Ok then, i have recently split with my very long time partner (13 years) and have gone through all the painfull stuff of separation, and now in the process of buying my own place.
No the relationship was'nt ended completely because of my dressing, (various other complex stuff) she knew about my cding for years, and kind of accepted it to a point, but did'nt want to see any of it.
Anyway, enough about that depressing stuff i am into a new phase of my life and i want to find a new girlfriend more accepting to my dressing i know, i know its a tall order!!!
So, my question is, if i was to meet someone from a dating site say, would you break the news to that person on the first date, get it out in the open, or would you wait, get to know that person first, and then tell them?
My worry is if i wait and get to really like this potential new girlfriend, i am going to lose them from telling them i CD.
I know some of you would say "she is'nt worth the friendship if she did'nt accept it" and there is some truth to that, but i must see this from their point of view, its not every day some one tells you they dress in female clothes.
Bit of a tricky one i know, but any input would help.
Dee.
