My wife is quite open minded. I know she'll never leave me because of me being TG but I know she has issues dealing with it most times. I used to be quite open and would feel free to speak about anything Jenn-related to her, but after a somewhat sore exchange after a leg-shaving incident in May, it's been a period of losing ground, or more like undoing the progress that was made over the last year.
She is understanding and I suppose would like to be supportive so I guess she feels that she can best do this by not bringing it into the light through any kind of conversation so that there is no possibility of taking a discussion into a negative area. We have enough other troubles as it is, now and then.
As far as wanting it to be accepted,... Hmmm,.. sure I'd think that would make me feel quite wonderful about myself overall. I don't expect that to ever happen tho.
jenn