Shirley makes a great point about "finding out where you are on the spectrum." Yes, very important and you must accept that this may take a geat deal of time. It's not neccessarily an instant answer. Despite years of feelings, desires, wondering, and experiences, I guess the realization most fully came when I discovered I most wanted to present as a woman when it came to how I want to be seen in a variety of activities. For example, doing errands, appearing at social events, even performing household chores, etc. Yes, even in conducting my relationships with others. Most essentially, I believe, is the need for you to fully believe SHE IS WHO YOU ARE/SHOULD BE, and not simply who you might like to be. So, if you have an honest to goodness answer for all those occaissions than that is probably a pretty good indicator of what gender is the true fit for you. Does that make sense my fellow members?
