Reading all the responses just confirms that we all have our own level of dressing, and we all need to find our own comfort level.

90% of the time it's just clothing for me, no desire to present as a girl.

10% of the time I'll have a go at make up and hair, which is a recent development for moi. At these times I do try my best to look feminine (with varying levels of success).

Bear in mind that I am firmly entrenched in the closet, and doubt I will ever have the guts to head out in public