Im a newbie gg, trying to figure out things and to support my loved one.

When we talked about how often we set boundaries within my comfort zone, I love him so much for that. I just want him to be happy and maybe understand why sometimes he has the "urge" and want a bit more time than agreed. I understand frequency vary form person to person, likes and dislikes, lifestyles..etc

With all respect, I would like to learn from other point of views, how often you CD?