Oh well . . .

[JulieC]

I started to explain that since I was gonna fly as Kimberly, it takes a bit longer to get ready, and she interrupted me.
"Oh, I get it. That's more important to you than we are!" and then she turned and walked out of the room. ... She told me two or three times "I'm sorry" as I put my stuff away and put on my guy clothes, but now I feel like a freak again

My marriage is incredible, and I love my wife dearly. She is 100% supportive of me crossdressing.

There's no such thing as a perfect marriage, and we constantly work at it.

A problem we have is that my wife might get upset with me about X, and instead want me to do Y. Then, if I stop doing X and do Y instead, she'll be upset for a different reason.

I've complained about this before; it's a no win scenario. If I do what she wants, she gets upset. If I don't do what she wants, she gets upset.

Thankfully, to date, X has never been crossdressing. I don't want to know what it feels like. I'm sorry you're facing it Kim.