Kimberly, That's an awesome story about an awesome sister. I think it's called unconditional love and it seems as if she has plenty of it for you. I'm sure if you had followed in the footsteps of your mother's former husbands, you relationship with her could have been quite different. Now that your mind is at ease, and she's cool with you as Kimberly, you may have opened new doors to some beautiful vistas. I'm glad for you girl.