If we GG's could say anything/ The good and the Bad

[HappyWife42]

I'm so hurt that you didn't tell me that you were a member of this forum..that you hid from me you referrals to yourself with a female name or as a girl..that you talk openly about being comfortable as a woman in actions and looks with strangers but never told me..your wife...I love you for who you are, including your female side, but I cannot make love to woman..I need you to make love to me as a man...and I feel such sorrow that you have been hiding this referral to yourself as a woman from me. So hurt that I am wasting my day off sobbing in front of the computer. I am so mad at you for putting me through this when you could have been forthcoming from the start and we could have explored this together. The fact that you won't apologize makes it so much worse. I am afraid I can't believe you when you say you don't want to take it further. I'm afraid you are not going to be the man I need in the future. If only you had asked me, instead of hiding, what my feelings were you would know there's enough room in my heart and in our bed for you to be the man that I need in my life and the woman within..but now I am afraid I can't trust you.

Even if I am finally able to accept you as a CDer, I still need you to be a man when you come to bed with me. To expect me to set aside my feelings during intimacy so you can wear your frilly little things is beyond selfish.

I think I can get used to the idea of sharing some "girl" stuff with you, just not in our bedroom.

I love you.

The last few days have been good (despite me being under the weather). I love that FINALLY we are able to talk to each other about this part of you. Why did it take us SO LONG?

I do love you!

I too need a man to make love to me. I am a woman with needs, and I need you to be a man. If you take care of me by being the man that I need, I could care less about you CDing, and will even embrace it sometimes in the bedroom. But you have been neglecting me, and for that reason your CDing is frustrating. Take care of your wife too, otherwise, why are you married? I wonder if you are only married to me because I will accept you and you don't have to try to hard to make me happy. I wonder if you are willing to do the work it takes to make this marriage work, or if it would be easier for you to just keep on taking the easy way out and half-assing it as a husband and as a CD. **** or get off the pot! What is it you want???? Stop hiding from me - wake up and face it!