as a closet dresser, i find i have keep this secret so well the its like breathing and i do it with out even thinking about it , now i have shaired it with all of you but thats in the cyber world not the real world , in the real world i have talked with only one gg about my dressing to any real degree and at the time i was shaking so bad and could not stop (like in shock) she was suportive and great about all tha,t we talked about but it took so much effert from me to talk out loud about somthing i have hiden for so long and so deep, i was so drained after , took me a week just to bring myself to feel NORMAL, but i also was right back in to secret mode (breathing ) i had to realy think and try hard to keep the open discusion we had going ( i failed ) and she moved on found a bf that could stay open , im not made at her at all it was me and only my falt,
see how far you can get with out breathing , lol its like walking in to a fart storm the trick is knowing when to breath
just my take
try not to be to hard on him he is just a guy after all , but if you want roll up a news paper and smack him on the nose and say bad boy bad boy if it will make you feel better ok
