Kitchenette,

It makes me feel better that even GG's suffer from this! (as awful as that sounds! big hug to you!) I think you are so right that had i'd been with a friend, he would of not said anything! He was just showing off in front of his friends to pick on someone who was vulnerable, and knew they wouldnt fight back. A coward in other words.
As others have said here, i can not stop people heckling me, its going to happen, and its something i will get used to over time. Its something thats not happened before. One thing for sure i am not going stop dressing, especially because of a low life like that.
Its an interesting thought that you might think i might of turned him on, maybe he thought, oh its a girl, oh Cr*p! its not a girl, ive been had!, its a guy, i feel stupid now i must shout at that person for fooling me.

I realise thick skin does come with being a CD, its something i am learning fast.

Thankyou and everyone for your help.

Dee.