Mandy (Amanda22) said (snipped)>
> And I have the support of my incredible wife. To sum it up, I think my situation is unusual and very, very fortunate.

That's something I've found quite heartening in the short time I've been on this forum - the numbers who have come out to their wives / SOs and HAVE ended up with a very supportive SO. I too am in this lucky position with a supportive wife but as I've posted a little earlier, I keep it quiet from others for the reasons explained.

It could quite easily gone the other way and led to pain and rejection for both of us as has happened to so many others.

xx Polly R