My wife foud out just a few weeks ago (as I'm sure many of you have read!). She fealt a little betrayed, but the worse part was how she felt of herself as being "so naive" for all those years. I had several pairs of womens panties...I just told her they fit better and were more comfortable. I explained that she wasn't dumb, or blind; just that I had kept it very well hidden. I have come to realize that she loves me...all of me...no matter what. After the initial shock and awe, she is becomming very accepting of my other self. I explained to her that dressing just makes me feel good and puts me in a happy place. She has requested some boundries, which I have no problem honoring. I think with time these will ease. She is a wonderful woman, and I love her now more than ever!