I have been a bit shocked by the difference between the UK and N America in terms of trying things on. Here in the UK it is normal to be able to try things on dressed as male, even in small boutiques.

After 15 years of this, it is all too easy to forget how nervous you get the first few times. Wouldn't it be helpful if retailers had a discreet sign in a corner of the window or the door announcing that they were happy for men to try things on. A hybrid male/female symbol would be too obvious - possibly a circle with an arrow inside it or something? By making it easier for men to shop, the retail problems would be transformed - these days they NEED us, but the more nervous amongst us need to know we are welcome.