If you are planning to grow breasts without moving toward reassignment think carefully. The other day I was getting dressed in guy mode. I tried on one of my men's swearters and realized that it didn't look good. As I was taking it off my wife asked if I was wearing a bra. I instantly knew what she was thinking. I had projection that looked like a woman. We were going to a christmas party where it would be a distraction. I would have liked to wear the sweater, it was a gift and there would be guys wearing similar sweaters, but it would never work for me. If I was enfem I could have put on a bra and fit right in with many of the women.