Cd admirers, why are there so many?

[Debglam]

Men who dress as women are seen by other men as an opportunity for a good time. Why else would they apparently abandon their power as men? Men see women as sexual subordinates, they are the ones who get penetrated, so a feminine man is purposely subordinating himself. Obviously I know this isn't always or even mostly the case, but men who know nothing of this lifestyle except what they see on Craigslist have no reason to think otherwise. The fact is a LOT of cross dressing men are looking for sex too and to pretend otherwise is just kinda goofy.

Yeah, I think this is it. I think that it is why the admirers have such a hard time taking "No" for an answer. Why ELSE would I want to be out at a LGBT bar en femme if I didn't want to have sex with some sweaty, balding old guy? <heavy sarcasm, please!>

This forum is a refuge of sorts for those of us who want a place where we can be free from lewd come-ons or constant chat requests, but I've seen many of these CD.com girls around the net looking for some action because I'm doing the same thing. ;-)

Agreed as to the first part and I'll take your word on the second. Bottom line is why shouldn't any of us just be honest with our feelings, even if we keep it to ourselves?

Also, on the same lines, I was going to say that GGs have been dealing with creepy people forever...it doesn't phase me anymore. But, you can't encourage them. The weird guy at the bar that won't leave you alone and wants to buy you a drink, so you give up and allow him to buy you one... NO... Because, he's never going to go away now. You will literally have to leave the bar to get away from him. Why? Because, you give them an inch and they take a mile.

Oh yeah! Just say NO!

But I went to a few tranny bars with my SO when we were just beginning to out in public. And I tell ya ... the admirers I saw (all were middle aged but this doesn't mean there aren't more such as you describe) pretty well fit the M.O. described by someone who has been on the scene in the San Francisco area for years, and who wrote a book about it. His name is Dr. Richard (Alice) Novic. She wrote "Alice in Genderland".

It was actually LA.

*sigh*. And there are CDs who look hotter than other CDs, GGs who look hotter than other GGs, and GGs who look hotter than CDs. And men who look hotter than other men. :rolleyes: Oh, and there are also men who look hotter than some CDs.
And men who are into the sporty girl, the athletic girl, the intellectual type girl, the girl next door type. In my last comment to one of your posts, Sean, I thought you were starting to get away from all those blanket statements.
And here we go again. Now you are telling a GG what her sexual preference is and how she wants to be treated. :facepalm:

Reine, you have to have the patience of a saint or be a mother, one,the other, or both. . .

Reine,
Alice Novik creeps me out to no end. I'm glad I didn't stumble upon her book when I was first introduced to this lol.

Me too a little bit. I am really open minded but the whole “almost polygamy” thing in the book is on the edge of what I can get my head around. Hell, I’m just a wannabe soccer mom though!

And, if two girls kiss at this bar. . .

Oh, a girl can dream. . .