Quote Originally Posted by Melissa Rose View Post
When out hunting, a hunter will select the forest with the highest number of desired prey. Admirers are going to frequent chat rooms or bars with the highest number of t-girls. It is simply a matter of numbers and statistics.
Many only want discreet encounters and do not want to date in any form. Once they find out I don't dive right into getting physical (not that there is anything majorly wrong with that between consulting adults, it is just not the way I fly) and require getting to know each other by going out on a few public dates, 90%+ lose interest right away.
Interesting post, Melissa Rose. I suspect that everything you said was right on the mark. Not to overdo the hunting analogy, but what you said is true if you're after numbers. Trophy hunters hunt where there are fewer numbers, and they work harder and have more patience to get their trophy.

I used to visit cd chat rooms a lot, and had many nice conversations with other cd's and cd admirers. When a chat connection was made, my first question was "cd or admirer?". No judgement there, I just wanted to know who I was chatting with. After a while I learned how to quickly weed out the ones whose objectives were different than mine, such as Melissa Rose mentioned. I never had any intention, nor did I lead any admirer on in believing, that I wanted a meeting. I wanted chat, and so did some of them. And had some very good chats with some very nice admirers.

I don't have a problem with the term admirer. I just take it for what it is - someone who, for one reason or another, is attracted to (admires) cd's. I talked to alot of creepy ones, and when I don't like how the conversation is going, dismiss them politely or, if necessary, with an unpolite <click> . But that's no reason for me to heap baggage on the nice ones. Admirers admire, and if they do something else let's define them with the appropriate term.