To me it depends how well we can pass. It's one thing to go out as a woman and have people believe that you are a woman. But it is entirely a different matter if you are instantly recognized as a man in a dress. That is no fun. I go out enfem all the time but only because I can pass most of the time. I wouldn't go out if I looked like a linebacker and I understand if others feel the same way. Years ago I was a member of TriEss. The chapter always rented a changing room next to their meeting room. That way someone could come in drab and then attend the meeting enfem. They looked like men in dresses but everyone understood and no one cared. We are all sisters no matter how we look. Leanne
