Hi, How about a bit of advice for first time shoppers? I went out yesterday for the FIRST time ever and bought my own panties. It really wasn't that bad at all. I wish I would have done it a longtime ago. Anyways, I think I'm going back to a discount store soon to get some string bikini tops and bottom swimming suits. My SO's are way too small for me! I figured I would pick out 2 or 3 my size (which I'm still trying to figure out). Get a gift bag and a birthday card along with them. I think something like that wouldn't arouse any suspicions at all. Byefor now!