My wife last month has discovered that I have a large set of bras and panties ...babydolls and other things hidden ....well it took a lot of effort from my part to convince her of my nature ....believe me i almost lost her ...but at the end with short cut I convinced her that it is part of me ....Now she excepted my transgeneder nature but she did not want to hear about it .....that is a bargain ...I accepted not to talk about it ...it hirts ,,,but better tat the end she gave somehan nothing...... of her used bras ,,,and panties ...they were my favorites ...any one of you have the same problem ?