GF says NO to painted toe nails! I MIGHT JUST DO IT TYO SPITE HER!

[Mistress Frillee]

I talked to her about this and she is dead set against it. So I am NOT going to push it. Its not worth it. BUT I did notice something else. I was doing all this ALPHA DOG stuff . I even had a few pics I had taken of me surrounded with groups of women, one of them was holding a sign that said ALPHA DOG pointing to me. She laughed and all but! I was at an awards function last night. I was all dressed up. I texted her some pics and she said I looked hot and I should come over for a drink. So I did. And she was totally strangely submissive. When I arrived, she asked me what I wanted to drink and then proceed to get me a beer. She made me a late supper, then offered me her portion and said I could eat all I wanted, so I ate it all. She cleaned up, I helped. Then I mentioned, as I sat in front of the TV, that dessert would be nice. There were some dessert creps left over from my last visit. I brought her some. She brought them to me nicely on a plate with a fork without me asking! So I offered her a bite, then proceed to eat the entire thing. She has never been like that.

Why did the above behaviour surprise me? She works in a high level position, a controller, the only person she reports to is the owner. SO her job demands she make all kinds of decisions that affect people, contracts, and cash flow of the company. So she has to be a take charge kind of a person.

She even went out and purchased a toothbrush for me ( after I told her that I had one for her, but lost it) to keep at my place for when she stays over. So pushing the colored toes thing is a NO GO> its just not worth it.


And YES, I notice that MOST (not all) woman like to be submissive, BUT ONLY to a clearly dominate ALPHA MALE! Sorry, but its true.

And again, I use my example of the work place. You need to network and play the politics game if you want to get ahead. This is a fact. So why not in relationships?

I DO treat her with respect. Thats part of an ALPHA DOG. You have to know the limits. ANd this girl did mention that she wants a man that WILL NOT re-arrange his life for her! So when I blew off meeting her friends, that actually worked to my advantage! She offered me the chance to meet them again, which I took. And then we all went back to their place. She felt bad because I had plans, which I blew off to be with her and her friends. NOW I told her that I WANT to go to her friends place THIS TIME as I blew off her friends before. SO IF she asks me if I want to do something, I TELL her the truth. If I want to go, I say so, if not, I say so. She likes that.