CD'ing(for me) could be a product of not having a girlfriend?

[Naomi Newman]

I don't buy it. You're a cross dresser who happens to not have a mate at this time. Cross dressing does not substitute for an actual woman. And, of course, when you have a mate your cross dressing desire falls off as you get to know this new person. If you had the same mate for several months, you'd find your cross dressing desires coming back to the fore.

i completely agree with this, it doesnt go away, and as for a girlfriend, i have 2 beautiful children, and a loving partner who works very hard, being a cross dresser isnt a state of mind its what makes us who we are, not what we want to be, ive been doing this since i was 13 years old or so, i am now 33, it doesnt go away because of sexual relations, or just company, if you embrace it it can help you become a more loving person towards your partner i feel, and maybe then you might find the person you are wanting to be or looking for. also i dont feel that being a cross dresser is something that satisfys me sexually eithor, it doesnt arrouse me, if pleases me inside that i enjoy the feeling it gives by making me look and feel nice about myself