Quote Originally Posted by Shibumi View Post
I'm a man in a dress. A big masculine lug of a man. I don't think I could be attractive to anyone physically, or find another person that looks like me sexually or physically attractive. But I think I could be best friends with another CD like me because we could talk about things that I can't even express to my wife--because as understanding as she is, she can't yet understand what I feel. It would be nice to have a kindred spirit to hang out with and have some "girl" time. I would be attracted on a friendship level to a fellow CD in that situation.
Not being the smallest guy in the room or the most feminine looking I can identify with this a lot. Having someone be attracted to me even knowing that neither they nor I am a woman can still be a potent thing for me. Not necessarily a sexual thing but more the fact the it's nice enough to be appreciated to maybe overlook the source of the appreciation.