My ex asked me the same question. "Where is this going?" At the time I really didn't know the answer to that question. I had about the same concessions, but she was not comfortable with me going out en femme. We are both happier now I think. I know I am. Partly because there is no tension in the air over it and I get to be me. I hope everything works out for the best. I know a situation such as yours can bring about a lot of stress and anxiety. Hang in there.
