I think it is healthy to not identify to much with the "female-side".
Then I am unhealthy as hell.
But I know quite a few who do not have a fem side and just like to wear the clothes. They do not act fem at all when dressed, they just like to do it for fun. It seems like they are very happy too.
All I ever wanted was to be a girl. Is that really asking too much?
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.