Question about changing into a real woman

[ReineD]

Thanks again for all your replies!

Several of you have said that your desire to be sexy comes from your male libido ... the male part of yourselves that is attracted to beautiful women. So you're really dressing to appeal to yourselves sexually? This is what is so confusing to me and I gather to a lot of GGs. Most of us don't dress to appeal sexually to ourselves. When we dress as attractively or sexily (is this a word?) as possible, it is to appeal to the object of our love interests which is generally a man (for hetero GGs). We do like to look nice for ourselves but that's just good grooming, which is an entirely different look than an attempt to look as sexually enticing or as hot as possible.

So because we do try to entice men when we dress in a certain way (as opposed to trying to entice ourselves), we do frequently wonder if you dress or want to look enticing for the same reasons that we do. This is why so many wives wonder if their husbands dress for other men.

It really is about the love of oneself as a woman isn't it ... even if it doesn't culminate in sexual release?

... would they then be just like all the other girls that wear Mini Skirts an Super high heels an Real short shorts an skimpy little tops out in public an the LOOK at you like a Pervert when you look at them ? An have all the men after them an chasing them wanting something special from them ,, So why would you want to attract MEN an then just push them away ?

Stacy, honestly I don't know any women like that except in the movies or perhaps some of the very young, immature college girls. I'm afraid that you're describing a stereotype. Just think of all the women who live on your street, and all your female family members. What percentage of these women fit the mold of outright teasers you've just described?