Quote Originally Posted by Beverley Sims View Post
Isha,
Slow down, you are going at 90 miles per hour.
You have advanced very well in your appearance and presentation.
You are likely to hit a brick wall, both you and your wife.
The magic of it all goes, you look at each other and say what now.
Keep what you have in the way of progress but temper it a little.

I have not lost my male identity and I don't think you need to either.
Enjoy life as it is but slow down and keep something for tomorrow.
You might really need that therapist if you continue at a breakneck speed.
Hi, I agree with Beverly you need to slow down. I went a little nuts at first too. I'm the total opposite of the type A personality you may possess so it was easy for me to calm down at look at this in a more sensible way. For me, not taking myself or dressing too seriously was the way to go to preserve my identity and my sanity. After reading some of your posts I felt a little worried about you, I'm so happy to hear that you do have a therapist.

Hugs Jaymee