I have often thought that I would like my SO to be a member here. Now I am not too sure. How many have SO's that are supportive (not DADT) and have decided to not push having them join.

If so why...

I have an absolute open book policy on all accounts, passwords etc with my SO, so I could care less typically.... but I do have an uncomfortable feeling about this and wanted to throw up a trial balloon here to see what others thought.

I don't know what the gain is for them really... other than fulfilling a need for me to have them participate.

Who knows....

not me..

Vanny