For me, I kept this a secret from her for a very long time. over 10 years
several reasons in my mind,
First, I was scared out of my mind that she would throw me out of the house.
we have 3 boys and I certainly could not stand that.
Second, I was not sure that she would keep my secret from the world. Another
very scary thing that I would not be able to deal with.
Now time has passed, Our relationship has grown, I have come out to my wife and our kids.
as well as some of my family and friends. My wife has totally accepted me, and everyone else that
I have told, is totally cool with it. so all those reasons that I had were totally false, It all worked out
well for me at least.
